Okay assume both cards have clan bonuses activated if nahi of roots stop bonus for ability and stop ability for a bonus plays against Kenny +2 life for ability and stop bonus for bonus, which comes first would kenny keep his ability due to his bonus, would it depend on who plays first?
No, it doesn't matter who goes first. a stop bonus/ability that isn't isn't cancelled goes first.
in your example, nahi's stop bonus goes first thus cancelling kenny's bonus. then nahi's bonus stop's kenny's ability.