You must take into account their connection speed and the amount of players their are on UR at the moment those have determining factors on how fast your games goes, its not always because their RETARDED EHHHHHHHH ! lol, mencia is funny by the way.
Most times they are saying same thing about you.
What you see is local. The actual match doesn't even look the same for the both of you. where your character could have attack 5 times to beat the other, for them it could have been a 1 hit attack that took all thier life. All that is the same is the outcome.
It all comes down to the connection, the server hops, and capacity.
RETARDDDD -- yeah Mencia is funny.